Visitinga Hindu temple as a non-Hindu can be a spiritually enriching experience, and
showing respect for the traditions and rituals of the place is key. Here is a
detailed guide on what to do and how to behave when visiting a temple as a non-Hindu.
1. Dress modestly
In Indian
culture, modesty is greatly valued, especially in religious spaces. Both men
and women should wear simple, clean, and modest clothing. If in doubt, ask a Hindu
friend or colleague.
- For Men: A kurta and pyjama or
loose-fitting trousers with a shirt is appropriate.
- For Women: Sarees, salwar kameez, or
long skirts with a modest top are ideal. Covering your head with a dupatta
or scarf is sometimes appreciated but not always necessary.
- Footwear: You have to remove your footwear before entering the temple premises. Shoes are typically left outside at designated places.
2. Entering the temple
- Cleanliness: When entering the temple,
ensure you are clean, both physically and in terms of your mental mood.
- Respectful Entry: Greet the temple’s
sanctity by joining your hands in a Namaste
(prayer posture) at the entrance.
- Manners: Try to maintain silence or speak in a low tone while inside. Avoid pointing your feet towards any deity or idol as this is considered impolite.
3. Inside the temple
- The darshan: The primary purpose of a temple
visit is to seek darshan (the auspicious sight) of the deity. Wait your
turn patiently. Do not rush or push others.
- Pranaam: After having darshan, you
can do pranaam (bowing with folded hands or touching the ground
with your forehead) in front of the deity. Even non-Hindus can
respectfully follow this practice.
- Pradakshina: Circumambulating the
temple (walking clockwise around the deity or the sanctum) is common,
symbolizing devotion and respect. Walk in a slow, clockwise manner,
offering your prayers silently in your head.
- Offering flowers, fruits and
prasad:
You can offer flowers, fruits, or coconuts, but it’s best to ask a local
priest beforehand to ensure what offerings are appropriate. After the
darshan, you may receive prasad (blessed food), which can be eaten
later as a sign of respect.
- Donation: If you wish to contribute
to the temple, you can leave a donation in the designated donation box or
offer it to the priest.
4. Mantras and prayers
You can
silently recite some simple Hindu mantras to show reverence. Here are a few
basic mantras you can chant during your visit:
a. Om
Namah Shivaya
Meaning, I bow to Shiva.
This is a universal mantra that can be chanted at any temple dedicated to Lord
Shiva. You can repeat it silently as you approach the deity.
b. Om Gan
Ganapataye Namah
meaning: Salutations to Lord Ganesha.
Use this mantra if you are visiting a temple dedicated to Lord Ganesha.
c. Om
Namo Narayanaya
Meaning: I bow to Lord Vishnu.
Recite this mantra in temples of Lord Vishnu or his incarnations like Lord
Krishna or Lord Rama.
5. Etiquette Towards Priests
- Respect: If a priest offers
blessings, you may accept them by cupping your hands together.
- Arti: If an arti
(ceremonial waving of the clay lamp) is being performed, you can observe
it from a respectful distance. At the end of the arti, the priest may
offer the flame or the holy water. You can place your hands above the
flame and touch your forehead in a gesture of receiving blessings.
6. Behavioural etiquette
- Avoid photography: In most temples,
photography is prohibited, especially near the inner sanctum. Always check
with temple authorities if you are unsure.
- Refrain from loud behaviour: Since the temple is a
space of worship and meditation, avoid talking loudly or engaging in
disruptive behaviour.
- Cultural sensitivity: Some areas of the temple
might be restricted to non-Hindus. If you're unsure about any space or
ritual, it’s always respectful to ask a temple guide or a priest.
7. Leaving the Temple
- Exit mindfully: After darshan and
offerings, when you leave, bow your head slightly and join your hands to
thank the deity for the visit.
- Consume the prasad: Once outside the temple, you can consume the prasad that was given to you by the priest or an helper.
Finally
Temples
in India are open to people from all walks of life, and by adhering to these
customs and respecting the sanctity of the space, you can have a spiritually
enriching experience. Even as a non-Hindu, a genuine sense of reverence and
curiosity will be welcomed.
Feel free
to chant the simple mantras shared above as you navigate through your temple
visit. By doing so, you will connect with the deeper spiritual essence of the
space.